Тогда как часто влюбляются в плохой объект, а потом в отношениях пытаются переделать его в хороший объект. Отсюда попытки изменить партнера.

Channel
Неидеальный психолог
@omilovidova
On this record: Growth · Engagement · Reactions · Posts · Citations · Cite this entry
247subscribers
-2 since we began measuring on 7 August 2026
Risers and fallers across the register · movement among entries of Under 1,000.
Register entry
| Telegram ID | -1001145453167 |
|---|---|
| Type | Channel |
| Username | @omilovidova |
| Created | Between 1 May 2017 and 30 June 2020— estimated from Telegram’s id allocation, not measured. How this range is calculated. |
| First recorded | 8 August 2026 |
| Last confirmed live | 14 August 2026 |
| Measurements held | 3 |
| Confirmed unchanged | 1 time, most recently 14 August 2026 |
| On Telegram | t.me/omilovidova |
Growth
| Measured (UTC) | Subscribers | Change |
|---|---|---|
| 14 Aug 2026, 21:06 | 247 | -2 |
| 8 Aug 2026, 09:32 | 249 | no change |
| 7 Aug 2026, 17:55 | 249 | first reading |
Engagement
19 posts held, back to 24 June 2026 — the reader has not yet reached the start of this channel’s public history, so older posts may sit further back, unread. Read across 1 pageof Telegram’s post history, 20 posts per page.
- ERR · 30 days
- 41.4%
- avg views ÷ 247 subscribers
- Avg views / post
- 102
- 6 posts measured
- Reaction rate
- 8.42%
- reactions ÷ views · ER floor
- Posts in window
- 6
- of 19 held
ERR is average views per post over the last 30 days divided by subscribers, the definition TGStat uses, so this figure is comparable with the one you will see elsewhere. It falls structurally as a channel grows: a high ERR on a small channel and a low one on a large channel describe reach mathematics, not quality. We publish the figure and the sample it came from and pass no verdict on it.
ER is defined industry-wide as (forwards + reactions + comments) ÷ views— note the denominator is views, not subscribers. Telegram’s public web preview carries views and reactions but not forward or comment counts, so the reaction rate above is the reactions term only and is therefore a floor: the true ER for this channel is higher by an amount we have not measured and will not estimate. It is computed over the 5 of 6 measured posts that carry a reaction reading, and over those same posts' views.
| Window | Rolling 30 days · latest post in window 5 August 2026 |
|---|---|
| Posts held | 19 (24 June 2026 – 5 August 2026) |
| Views total | 613 |
| Reactions total | 47 |
| Forwards / comments | not exposed by the public surface — not measured, not estimated |
| Readings taken | 8 Aug 2026, 09:32 UTC |
Views are a single reading per post, taken at the time above. A post published in the last day or two is still accumulating views, which pulls the 30-day average down slightly. That is a property of the standard definition rather than a fault in it, so we keep the definition rather than “correcting” the number into something nobody can reproduce.
Precision. Telegram publishes view counts on its public widget in short form — 8.12K, 3.7M — so any reading at or above 1,000 reaches us rounded to three significant figures, and only counts below 1,000 are exact. Averages and rates derived from them are shown to the same precision rather than to the unit: a figure like 3,701,250 would assert digits nobody measured.
Reaction counts are published per emoji and rounded the same way, so a total below 1,000 is exact and a larger one is a sum that may carry a rounded component from each emoji above 1,000. Because it is a sum, it does not look rounded — read a large reaction total as three significant figures per contributing emoji rather than as the figure it prints.
Reaction mix
173 reactions across 17 posts, in 12 distinct kinds. The most used accounts for 18.5% of them.
| Reaction | Count | Share | Share, drawn |
|---|---|---|---|
| 👍 | 32 | 18.5% | |
| 😁 | 27 | 15.6% | |
| custom 5222232309796739196 | 24 | 13.9% | |
| custom 5221934277721101570 | 19 | 11.0% | |
| custom 5231153914648215860 | 15 | 8.67% | |
| custom 5291939886708837025 | 14 | 8.09% | |
| 🔥 | 14 | 8.09% | |
| 🥰 | 14 | 8.09% | |
| custom 5348483852715179554 | 6 | 3.47% | |
| custom 5292246405639855167 | 4 | 2.31% | |
| 😈 | 3 | 1.73% | |
| 👀 | 1 | 0.578% |
Custom emoji. 6 of the rows above are Telegram custom emoji, which the public preview renders as an element carrying only a numeric id — no character, and no image we can reach. The id is printed as-is rather than substituted with a look-alike glyph, because a stand-in would be our invention showing where a measurement should be. The counts beside them areTelegram’s.
No sentiment is inferred, and none should be read in. This table is ordered by count and by nothing else. Emoji do not carry stable meaning across languages or communities — 🙏 is thanks in one channel and mourning in another — so we publish which ones were pressed and how often, and pass no judgement on what an audience meant by them.
Precision. Telegram publishes reaction counts per emoji and short-forms each one — 4.34K, 1.2M — so any single kind at or above 1,000 reaches us at three significant figures, and only counts below 1,000 are exact. The shares above are ratios of those figures and carry the same error. This is also why the total here can differ slightly from a reaction total printed elsewhere on the page: both are sums of the same rounded parts, taken over samples with different edges.
Coverage. Reactions were read on 18 of the 19 sampled posts in this sample. Summed by Telegram’s own count on each post — not by adding up the per-emoji breakdown above — those same posts carry 173reactions in total: the kind of figure the paragraph above means by “a reaction total printed elsewhere on the page”.
Measured over the 19 most recent posts we hold, published 24 June 2026 to 5 August 2026, using the newest reading held for each. Telegram Stars are excluded: they are a payment, not a reaction, and they have their own section.
Recent posts
Один из признаков зрелости — возможность выдерживать амбивалентность без расщепления на хороший и плохой объект.
О мужской дружбе Последние месяцы говорим в терапии о дружбе после 30. О том, как мужская гендерная социализация не учит дружить иначе как "мы вместе занимаемся одной деятельностью". Получается функциональное общение, но дружбой это назвать сложно. Любовь требует работы Души, а дружба это и есть любовь без секса. Это значит аккуратно выстраивать привязанность, узнавать Другого, медленно сближаться. Это значит, что…
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Пошла вчера по нетипичному для себя маршруту, видимо, так зачем-то было нужно, и я вскоре поняла, зачем. Пока забирала свой заказ, за мной в пункт выдачи зашла женщина с ярким фингалом под глазом. Я подошла, разговорились, порекомендовала ей два кризисных центра, куда нужно обратиться как можно быстрее за психологической помощью, это бесплатно. Надеюсь, у нее хватит внутренних ресурсов на этот шаг и она дойдет. Я х…
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Шизоидные и нарциссические паттерны часто противопоставляют, но у них есть общая боль: страх поглощения и отвержения. У шизоидного полюса защита — дистанция: “Я спрячусь, чтобы меня не разрушили”. У нарциссического полюса защита — фасад: “Я буду особенным, чтобы меня не отвергли”. Ирония в том, что оба паттерна могут звучать как “я не нуждаюсь”, а на деле это про очень сильную потребностьв безопасном контакте. В нача…
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Обсессия (2025) История о том, как Беар, безответно влюбленный в Никки, всё-таки заставляет её себя полюбить. И если смотреть этот хоррор про токсичную созависимость на символическом уровне, то история выглядит не менее жуткой. Дальше могут быть спойлеры! Беар только внешне неуверенный, тревожный и безобидный мальчик — если глубже заглянуть, там весьма зубастая хтонь прячется. Заставить в себя влюбиться — это не…
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Почему мысли на самом деле не материальны? Есть несколько тревожненьких установок с разной степенью магического мышления (против магического мышления ничего не имею, если что. Если помогает, то и отлично, следите главное, чтобы не мешало). Установки эти обычно звучат как "боюсь об этом думать, притяну неудачу" или "буду представлять вот это, чтобы стать магнитом для денег и удачи". С точки зрения психологии я бы на…
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Мы себя пугаем, а дальше создаем себе кайф и разрядку трукраймом и сериалами про убийства. Это привычный испуг и от этого допинга зависимость появляется. А дальше без этого уже невозможно.
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Учеба у психологов такая смешная. Чат с техподдержкой: — у меня пропало НРЛ, можете вернуть, пожалуйста? — "сексуальная жизнь ПРЛ" доступна до 20 июля, напоминаю. — это я уже, спасибо. Мне нужно НРЛ. — доступ к НРЛ открыт. — 😄 #личное
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А лучше, всё-таки, как папа😂. Мой муж готовит чаще и разнообразнее, чем я
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Showing the 12 most recent of 19 posts we hold for @omilovidova. View and reaction counts are the latest single reading for each post, not a live figure, and a recent post is still accumulating both. A view count marked ≈ was rounded by Telegram before we ever saw it — t.me prints views in full below 1,000 and to three significant figures above, so ≈1,200,000 means somewhere between 1,150,000 and 1,249,999. Unmarked counts are exact. Text is reproduced from the public post preview and truncated for length.
Forward network
Republishes
Channels on the register whose posts this channel has forwarded.
Built only from forwarded posts we have actually read, on both sides. Coverage is early and deliberately incomplete: a missing link means we have not read the post that would prove it, never that the relationship does not exist. Counts are distinct forwarded posts observed, so they only ever go up as we read more.
Cite this entry
A live page changes as we take new readings, so a citation should name the measurement it is based on, not just the URL. The line below cites the subscriber count as measured 14 August 2026 — this entry's latest reading, not the date you are reading this.
“Неидеальный психолог” (@omilovidova), 247 subscribers as measured 14 August 2026. Telegram Register, tgregister.com/channel/omilovidova.
Full measurement history, CC BY 4.0. Every reading this register holds for this entry, not just the latest one, as a dated, downloadable record: CSV · JSON. Free to use with attribution to tgregister.com. Each file carries its own generation timestamp, which is the figure to cite for exactly when the data was retrieved.