18 Jun 2026, 16:21 UTC217 viewsread 10 August 2026 Poll
What gets in the way of you asking for what you actually want: in intimacy, in your relationship, in bed?
- Fear of hurting them or causing a fight11%
- I tried asking in the past and it didn’t go well…33%
- I don’t have the words for it yet11%
- I might want too much67%
- Im not sure even what I want33%
The shares total 155%, above 100: this poll accepts more than one answer per voter. No per-option vote count is published, so the number of voters who chose each option is not derivable and is not shown.
18 Jun 2026, 16:19 UTC207 viewsread 10 August 2026 June intimacy question 🌊
This month, in my work with intimate partners, as part of my placement in psychosexual therapy something kept coming up across completely different relationships and different stories.
Everyone wanted closeness and intimacy. Everyone wanted to be touched, or understood in a specific way.
But somewhere between the wanting and the asking… something stopped them.
So this month’s question is …
11 Jun 2026, 09:22 UTC85 viewsread 10 August 2026 Posted without readable text
11 Jun 2026, 09:22 UTC74 viewsread 10 August 2026 june relational's practice 🌿
This week I gave sessions to two couples:
from two completely different countries, two completely different lives.
Both of them said almost the same thing: Sometimes the distance between isn't created by a fight.
It's created by a hundred small moments
where you were both in the same room
and yet feeling alone
I offered them both the same practice.
It's one of my favourite things to do …
5 Jun 2026, 13:17 UTC65 viewsread 10 August 2026 June is here 🌿
(a few days late, as i was away in uk for my MSc in psychosex therapy)
preview in the monthly calander
Before we step into this month, I want to pause and say:
thank you for showing up in May!
your answers told a real, shared story.
almost 40% of you said there's simply nothing left at the end of the day.
Life, kids, work, and by the time you reach each other, the tank is empty.
When you do try to r…
5 Jun 2026, 13:17 UTC35 viewsread 10 August 2026 File
File, posted without a caption
21 May 2026, 09:44 UTC60 viewsread 10 August 2026 Posted without readable text
21 May 2026, 09:43 UTC56 viewsread 10 August 2026 may intimate community research question!
Last week’s poll gave such interesting insights 👀
It seems many of us struggle n to know how to reconnect when differences arise.
Thank you to everyone who voted in last week's poll! you gave me so much to think about.
The results were clear: what you need most right now is a **guided somatic intimacy & reconnection practice** 🔥 something embodied, not just conceptual.
…
14 May 2026, 16:01 UTC49 viewsread 10 August 2026 Posted without readable text
14 May 2026, 16:01 UTC42 viewsread 10 August 2026 mai intimacy question in our global intimacy community!
Last week, we explored something beautiful (and very human) how different our automatic reactions can be when we get triggered in relationships.
Different nrelational reflexes. Different survival strategies.
And yet… so many of us recognized ourselves in each other 👀
Because usually, it’s never really about the dishes...
Under conflict often live:
different…
7 May 2026, 18:12 UTC48 views0 reactionsread 10 August 2026 Posted without readable text
7 May 2026, 18:09 UTC56 viewsread 10 August 2026 **Thursday relational practice in our intimacy community **
This week, I bring a practice I needed, actually,
when I found myself getting deeply triggered in a relational dynamic inside my own poly relationship.
My nervous system went into protection mode:
I withdrew and avoided both of my relationship people (flight),
while also saying “everything is okay” to keep the peace (fawning).
So this week’s relational i…
Showing the 12 most recent of 20 posts we hold for @global_intimacy_community. View and reaction counts are the latest single reading for each post, not a live figure, and a recent post is still accumulating both. A view count marked ≈ was rounded by Telegram before we ever saw it — t.me prints views in full below 1,000 and to three significant figures above, so ≈1,200,000 means somewhere between 1,150,000 and 1,249,999. Unmarked counts are exact. Text is reproduced from the public post preview and truncated for length.