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Channel
✨💗坦然诉心声💗✨
@suiyuanba
On this record: Growth · Engagement · Reactions · Posts · Citations · Cite this entry
87subscribers
-1 since we began measuring on 11 August 2026
Risers and fallers across the register · movement among entries of Under 1,000.
Register entry
| Telegram ID | -1003896142824 |
|---|---|
| Type | Channel |
| Usernames | @facai365 @suiyuanba @tongkuai |
| Created | Between 1 February 2026 and 30 June 2026— estimated from Telegram’s id allocation, not measured. How this range is calculated. |
| First recorded | 11 August 2026 |
| Last confirmed live | 12 August 2026 |
| Measurements held | 6 |
| Confirmed unchanged | 1 time, most recently 12 August 2026 |
| On Telegram | t.me/suiyuanba |
Growth
| Measured (UTC) | Subscribers | Change |
|---|---|---|
| 12 Aug 2026, 14:14 | 87 | no change |
| 12 Aug 2026, 08:43 | 87 | -1 |
| 12 Aug 2026, 04:45 | 88 | no change |
| 12 Aug 2026, 04:32 | 88 | no change |
| 11 Aug 2026, 20:00 | 88 | no change |
| 11 Aug 2026, 19:48 | 88 | first reading |
Engagement
12 posts held, back to 3 August 2026 — the reader has not yet reached the start of this channel’s public history, so older posts may sit further back, unread. Read across 2 pagesof Telegram’s post history, 20 posts per page.
- ERR · 30 days
- 42.8%
- avg views ÷ 87 subscribers
- Avg views / post
- 37.3
- 12 posts measured
- Reaction rate
- 0.645%
- reactions ÷ views · ER floor
- Posts in window
- 12
- of 12 held
ERR is average views per post over the last 30 days divided by subscribers, the definition TGStat uses, so this figure is comparable with the one you will see elsewhere. It falls structurally as a channel grows: a high ERR on a small channel and a low one on a large channel describe reach mathematics, not quality. We publish the figure and the sample it came from and pass no verdict on it.
ER is defined industry-wide as (forwards + reactions + comments) ÷ views— note the denominator is views, not subscribers. Telegram’s public web preview carries views and reactions but not forward or comment counts, so the reaction rate above is the reactions term only and is therefore a floor: the true ER for this channel is higher by an amount we have not measured and will not estimate. It is computed over the 4 of 12 measured posts that carry a reaction reading, and over those same posts' views.
| Window | Rolling 30 days · latest post in window 8 August 2026 |
|---|---|
| Posts held | 12 (3 August 2026 – 8 August 2026) |
| Views total | 447 |
| Reactions total | 1 |
| Forwards / comments | not exposed by the public surface — not measured, not estimated |
| Readings taken | 12 Aug 2026, 04:45 UTC |
Views are a single reading per post, taken at the time above. A post published in the last day or two is still accumulating views, which pulls the 30-day average down slightly. That is a property of the standard definition rather than a fault in it, so we keep the definition rather than “correcting” the number into something nobody can reproduce.
Precision. Telegram publishes view counts on its public widget in short form — 8.12K, 3.7M — so any reading at or above 1,000 reaches us rounded to three significant figures, and only counts below 1,000 are exact. Averages and rates derived from them are shown to the same precision rather than to the unit: a figure like 3,701,250 would assert digits nobody measured.
Reaction counts are published per emoji and rounded the same way, so a total below 1,000 is exact and a larger one is a sum that may carry a rounded component from each emoji above 1,000. Because it is a sum, it does not look rounded — read a large reaction total as three significant figures per contributing emoji rather than as the figure it prints.
Reaction mix
1 reaction across 1 post, in 1 kind.
| Reaction | Count | Share | Share, drawn |
|---|---|---|---|
| ❤ | 1 | 100.0% |
No sentiment is inferred, and none should be read in. This table is ordered by count and by nothing else. Emoji do not carry stable meaning across languages or communities — 🙏 is thanks in one channel and mourning in another — so we publish which ones were pressed and how often, and pass no judgement on what an audience meant by them.
Precision. Telegram publishes reaction counts per emoji and short-forms each one — 4.34K, 1.2M — so any single kind at or above 1,000 reaches us at three significant figures, and only counts below 1,000 are exact. The shares above are ratios of those figures and carry the same error. This is also why the total here can differ slightly from a reaction total printed elsewhere on the page: both are sums of the same rounded parts, taken over samples with different edges.
Coverage. Reactions were read on 4 of the 12 sampled posts in this sample. Summed by Telegram’s own count on each post — not by adding up the per-emoji breakdown above — those same posts carry 1reactions in total: the kind of figure the paragraph above means by “a reaction total printed elsewhere on the page”.
Measured over the 12 most recent posts we hold, published 3 August 2026 to 8 August 2026, using the newest reading held for each. Telegram Stars are excluded: they are a payment, not a reaction, and they have their own section.
Recent posts
真诚留给同频的人 真诚一般都是向上的, 唯有认知同频或高于你的人, 才能读懂这份真心。 这份强大无关地位、财富与身份, 只藏在眼界和思想里。 若是对方认知尚有差距, 再多剖白也只会徒增误解, 争辩更是消耗。 不必费力解释, 不必强求认同, 适度沉默便是最体面的回应。 把真心留给能同频共振的人, 安静沉淀, 慢慢提升自己就好。
任何关系,都要亲疏有间 人到中年慢慢读懂, 舒服的人际关系, 从来不是不分你我的亲密无间, 而是懂得亲疏有间,远近有度。 很多人之所以在感情里受伤, 就是边界感模糊。 对待泛泛之交掏心掏肺, 对待至亲之人肆意任性, 错把毫无保留当作真诚, 最后换来消耗与失望。 对熟人过度插手家事, 对朋友随意打探收入与隐私, 越是没有分寸,感情消散得越快。 真正的相处智慧,是分清圈层: 家人之间多包容, 但不捆绑彼此的人生; 挚友之间多交心, 但不随意索取麻烦; 普通熟人保持礼貌客气, 不必强行拉近距离。 距离不是疏远, 而是给感情留呼吸的余地。 再要好的人,也要守住分寸; 再亲近的关系,也要保留自我。 亲而有间,密而有疏, 不越界,不纠缠,
允许他人,误会自己 大大方方做自己 人到中年,历经人情冷暖 慢慢读懂最高级的清醒: 不必奢求所有人理解,坦然接纳他人对你的曲解✨ 亦舒说: “每个人说出来的观点, 看见的从来不是真相, 只是自己内心的投射。” 真正内核稳定,不是四处证明自己, 面对偏见、杂音、无端揣测 学会不争论、不纠缠、自我稳住。 拼命澄清,是内心还在寻求认可 年轻的时候 一旦遭到非议、被人曲解,总想立刻辩驳 一字一句梳理始末,迫切想要扭转别人的看法 走过弯路才醒悟 急着争辩,根源是渴望被认同 下意识把自我评价,交到外人手中 消耗大量情绪去说服别人,最后疲惫的只有自己 层次不同,很难彼此相通 很多人选择相信的,只是心里预设好的答案 认知不在同一维度,再多解释皆是徒劳 滔滔不绝的辩解,只会持续拉扯消耗你的心力 适度沉默,是成年人顶级通透 莫言说过: “遇到不理解你的人,不必解释。 三观不在一个层面,微笑就好。” 现在的我慢慢学会淡然处之 沉默,不…
最好的福报—精气神 有没有发现:状态差的时候,事事都不顺;状态通透了,好运真的会自动找上门。 人一旦养足精气神,人生真的会悄悄开挂。 人这辈子最顶级的福气, 从不是大富大贵, 而是身体无疾、心底无事, 眼里有光,身上有饱满的正气与灵气。 越长大越通透: 长期的情绪内耗、反复纠结拉扯、昼夜颠倒的作息, 看似不起眼,实则一直在悄悄消耗你的磁场、透支你的好运。 想要生活顺遂、财运安稳, 最先要修的,从来不是外物,而是自己本身。 把精气神养满、把内心养静, 你自己就是一片肥沃的风水土壤。 只要自身状态稳得住,任凭生活风雨起落, 福气、人缘、财运,终会在你身上落地生根🌱
担心的永远不会发生 绝对不要给自己预设灾难,事情还没有发生 时时觉醒觉察自己的起心动念,不要让自己的坏念头决定自己的人生,永远不要提前焦虑,万物自有节奏, 尽你所能,敬你所不能,不为难自己
❤1
人这一生,会遇到千干万万个人, 有人擦肩而过、有人相伴数年。 相处久了你就会慢慢发现, 维持一段关系从不是甜言蜜语、也不是刻意讨好。 所有长久舒服的关系靠的是: 尊重为底、靠谱为骨、厚道为魂。 低配尊重,安稳相处; 高配靠谱,长久相伴; 顶配厚道,一生顺遂。 人与人相遇靠缘分,人与人相守靠人品。 尊重,让关系不累, 靠谱,让感情不散; 厚道,让岁月温柔。 往后余生: 愿我们都能修炼自己、待人有分寸, 做事有担当、做人有厚道。 以尊重待人、以靠谱立身、以厚道处世, 遇到更好的人,拥有最好的关系
厚德载福,善良是最好的财富 人活一世,何为真正的成功? 无关积攒多少财富,也不在乎身居多高位置,难得的是常怀一颗善心。 多行善举、累积德行,才是人生顶级的收获。 德行是做人立身的根基,修养藏在一言一行里。 好德行源自心底良善,好修养来自端正人品。 守住自身品德,日子自然顺遂,也会收获身边人的认可与善待。
学会接受、懂得改变、适时放下
最好的养生,是远离消耗你的人 人过了一定年纪, 才慢慢明白一件事, 消耗你的,不只是不正确的饮食和不规律的作息, 还有让你内耗的人际关系。 1. 靠近能滋养你的人 “人和人之间,有的是阳气,有的是二氧化碳。” 给你输氧的人,要珍惜; 让你窒息的人,要有放下的勇气。 和什么样的人在一起,就会成为什么样的人, 与勤奋的人在一起,你不会懒惰, 和积极的人在一起,你不会消沉。 2. 不解释,不内耗 《道德经》有言: “知人者智,自知者明。” 清楚自己要什么, 就不必再向不理解你的人反复证明什么。 不解释,不是冷漠。 是把能量用在值得的地方。 3. 允许关系自然降温 有的关系,慢慢淡下去, 是因缘和合,不是谁的对错。 你不必因为“曾经很好”就继续维持一段让你疲惫的关系。 强撑着不如好好道别, 留白,才是最体面的结局。 关系淡了,不要硬捂热,温柔地放手。 4. 学会独处 一个人吃饭,散步, 一个人学会自洽, 这些时刻,不是孤独…
成年人最大的清醒,就是不要轻易指出别人身上的任何问题。 年少时总觉得忠言逆耳,好心提醒,对方定会心存感激。 后来慢慢懂得,人性本能是自我辩护,而非坦然反思。 你眼中直白善意的提点, 落在别人耳朵里,却是否定、指责与难堪。 没有人喜欢被纠正,没有人愿意被揭穿不足。 认知不在同一高度,不必强行说服; 立场不在同一层面,不必强求共鸣。 每个人的经历、眼界各不相同, 你很难用自己的道理,叫醒一个不愿醒悟的人。 看破不必说破,知人不必评人。 克制想要指点他人的欲望, 少好为人师,少插手别人的人生。 管好自己,不渡他人, 守住言语的分寸, 才是成年人顶级的自律与通透。
见过世面的女人,一眼就能看出来 你身边有没有这样的女生:她们穿的不是多名贵,长得也不是多漂亮,只是站在人群中,就有一种强大的气场。 所谓见过世面的女人,从来不是去过多少地方,用过多少名牌,而是骨子里透出来的气质与从容。 见过世面的女人都很稳,身上这几个特质,一眼就能看出来: ① 情绪稳 遇事不慌不炸,天塌下来也能沉住气。 不是没有情绪,是见过更大的风浪,小事不值得浪费精力。 ② 姿态稳 面对谁都不卑不亢,不讨好、不怯场。 住五星级酒店不觉得自己高人一等,吃路边摊也不觉得掉价。 ③ 言语稳 不急着表达,不插话不抢话,说的每句都在点上。 拥有的越多,话越少。 ④ 边界稳 温柔但有锋芒,善良但有底线。 对人好,但不会好到委屈自己。这种分寸感,是吃过亏、走过弯路才长出来的。 ⑤ 内核稳 不依附任何人,不把幸福寄托在别人身上。 有自己的收入、圈子、爱好,有人在身边是锦上添花,一个人也能过得风生水起。 说到底,真正见…
Showing the 12 most recent of 12 posts we hold for @suiyuanba. View and reaction counts are the latest single reading for each post, not a live figure, and a recent post is still accumulating both. A view count marked ≈ was rounded by Telegram before we ever saw it — t.me prints views in full below 1,000 and to three significant figures above, so ≈1,200,000 means somewhere between 1,150,000 and 1,249,999. Unmarked counts are exact. Text is reproduced from the public post preview and truncated for length.
Citation-graph rank
Citation-graph rank — 988,208 of 1,480,688entries in the measured graph. A weighted position computed from the forward and mention edges below — republished posts weigh more than named mentions — and recomputed periodically, over the whole graph. Published only as this ordinal position, never as a score: a position is a fact, and a score printed beside one channel’s name would read as a verdict this register does not make. The two counts beneath stay separate for the same reason mentions are never summed with forwards anywhere else on this page — a named-by count costs nothing to manufacture. The top 100 by this measure, or how it is computed.
Mentions
Named by 5 registered channels — every channel on the register whose own posts have named this one, by its current username or any other username it currently holds, merged from two separately captured readings of the same fact so a namer caught by only one of them is not missed and a namer both caught is not counted twice. A username this channel has since dropped is not matched — that handle may belong to someone else now, and crediting today’s namer to yesterday’s owner would misattribute it.
Named by
Channels on the register whose posts name this channel's handle.
A mention is a weaker signal than a forward and is counted separately for that reason — naming a channel is not republishing it, and a handle in a post body is easy to place deliberately. The post counts beside each row below are distinct posts in which the handle appeared, from posts we have read on both sides — the “Named by N registered channels” figure above is a different count, of distinct NAMING CHANNELS rather than posts, and is not the sum of the rows under it.
Cite this entry
A live page changes as we take new readings, so a citation should name the measurement it is based on, not just the URL. The line below cites the subscriber count as measured 12 August 2026 — this entry's latest reading, not the date you are reading this.
“✨💗坦然诉心声💗✨” (@suiyuanba), 87 subscribers as measured 12 August 2026. Telegram Register, tgregister.com/channel/suiyuanba.
Full measurement history, CC BY 4.0. Every reading this register holds for this entry, not just the latest one, as a dated, downloadable record: CSV · JSON. Free to use with attribution to tgregister.com. Each file carries its own generation timestamp, which is the figure to cite for exactly when the data was retrieved.